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Just Me
My gorgeous fiancée is no longer my fiancée. We decided to split up about 3 months ago. Now, I am just me (and my kids, and my family, and my friends, but you get what I mean). I am trying to take a...
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Bucket List
Hello friends. My adventure last week has gotten me thinking. I will share a bit about the adventure as soon as I make the time to write it. In the meantime, I have started a bucket list. I know it’s...
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WANTED: FEMME FOR BUTCH
This one is long. Grab a beer or coffee before reading. Go ahead, I’ll wait… Welcome back! Ready? I’ve been single for 4 months, and I’ve been thinking that I might be ready to go out. For a while...
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I really hope the Mayans are wrong.
Tonight, or maybe tomorrow night, is supposed to be the end of the world. What time zone does that happen in, by the way? I mean, it would already be the end of the world in Australia, right? The...
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Update: The Mayans WERE Wrong!
Just a celebratory note that the Mayans were wrong! We are all still here! Hooray. If I’d really been scared, really been sure the world was ending, then I would have to think that I’ve been given a...
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Happy Holidays!
Here is how we build a gingerbread house in our family. Have a very butch Christmas!
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Can Accommodate 7
There’s no way to butch up a minivan. I’ve started thinking about a new car and so have been paying attention to things I would not normally pay attention to. The other day I saw an ad proudly...
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How Butch Are You?
Plenty of readers have asked me a variety of this question: How do I know if I am butch? How do I know if someone else is butch? Why don’t people know I am butch? Or, what about lesbians that look...
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“MOM! The Tooth Fairy Didn’t Come!”
It’s not fair that we have to work all this “magic” for our kids, without actually having any! Oh geez. Just reading the title, you probably know what’s coming. Mom is an idiot. That’s me. Damnit! I...
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How to Date with Kids
Ah, the maternal looking femme. A model mother. Dare I talk about this? I feel like a bit of a pariah in my community. I have … two kids. The death knell, I think, for dating. Sure, I know there are...
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Hello Femmes!
A Gentleman Doesn’t Share I’m sitting in a lesbian bar having a beer. I am alone. I only came out to retrieve my Visa that I unceremoniously abandoned here the night before. I was, as you might...
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Touch Your Lips, Hold Our Gaze & Other Femme Tactics
In my last post, I wrote about my own frustration in finding our beloved femmes when geography isn’t the roadmap. This post generated more likes, comments, retweets and shares than most. Apparently,...
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The Bromance
The mystical bromance… I’m excited to talk about this with y’all. Traditionally, “bromance” means a non-sexual relationship of great affection between guys. Think Hangover (the first one, not the...
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Why I Hate TSA
Some days are worse than others. I’ve talked a lot here about what I experience as a butch. Specifically, how people interact with me because I do not conform to gender identities that they expect. I...
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On Being Butch … and Tristan
Usually as a big ol’ butch, I don’t have to come out. Walk into a room, people know I’m a lesbo – unless they mistake me for a dude. Whatev. But recently, I had to decide whether to come out. Again....
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The Pleasure Pit
The aptly named gambling area at Planet Hollywood So I was with friends in Vegas recently – just for fun. One of the people in our group was having a birthday and so it was off to Vegas we go. This is...
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Three Lesbians Walk Into a Strip Club
Vegas’ OG strip club So, in my last post I left off with the statement, “Umm, how about a strip club?” Well… Yes! We had a winner. Into a cab we piled and headed way off the strip to Olympic Gardens....
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A Spotless Bowtie
Can you spot the bow tie? When I was in Tokyo last month I had the privilege of visiting one of our factories. This is where my company makes some ridiculously sophisticated stuff. I mean, seriously. I...
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Why 8 is Enough Already.
Reblogged from ButchOnTap: Note: This is a factual and opinionated blog about political stuff, not so funny as I like to think I normally am. Forgive me. So, as a lawyer and one of the leaders of my...
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It’s Not That Complicated
Today, I texted my daughter to see if she knew what happened yesterday at the Supreme Court. Turns out, it’s just not that complicated. It went like this: Me: Yesterday the US Supreme Court listened to...
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